Top 21 questions to ask a girl to get out of the friend-zone

We all know that girls love to be flirted at, but many boys feel uneasy to tackle the direct questions so as to remove the barrier between them and mostly get out of the friend-zone. However, all you need is to ask some specific questions to the girl, like these 21 questions to ask a girl for it to work.

One really big problem guys are experiencing lately is that whenever they approach a girl they like, they are getting friend-zoned, that is instead of being looked at from a boyfriend perspective, they are rather being considered as a friend. This is becoming really irritating and this is why I wrote this article on ‘Top 21 questions to ask a girl’ to help these friend-zoned guys to get out of these zones.

If you follow this list and ask these questions even though they seem like silly or inappropriate questions to ask a girl, you will amazed by the positive response you will get from her. In fact, these questions will help you break the ice and you will easily be able to flirt with her and most important of all, get out of the friend-zone.

Sometimes guys use the method that we call ‘the cheesy one-liner’. Some examples are – If I said you had a beautiful body, would you hold it against me?Did it hurt when you fell out of heaven? However, even though it looks like classic one-liners, the effect might be you are ignored by some girls, but on the other hand, might have desired positive effects on other girls.

Top 21 questions to ask a girl if you want to get out of the friend-zone

Come on guys, try out these questions, you have got nothing to lose, but all to gain.

#1 Would you describe yourself as naughty or nice?

This question will make her keep thinking without answering in the beginning and bringing out a mischievous smile or grin. The majority of girls would definitely reply ‘nice’ when in fact they consider themselves naughty. This will definitely help you start the conversation on a positive note.

#2 What would you do if you could be invisible for one day?

This is something to make her wander in her own thoughts as the possibilities are infinite if she becomes invisible. She will start thinking naughty as well but she wont tell you anything about what she is thinking and will only smile, which is very positive for you.

#3 What is your most embarrassing sexual moment?

This will definitely take her off-guard and might be very embarrassing. You just need to be cautious on this one, you need to set the mood right after asking the above questions along with other ones first before you can ask this one. Otherwise you will be going head-on in a wall or get a tight slap. Eventually, if asked right and at the right moment, you have created a positive atmosphere where the conversation can go forward more smoothly and become enjoyable.

#4 What’s the weirdest nickname you’ve ever had?

This is the question you can only ask when you have reached beyond the trust line. If she answers this question, consider yourself very lucky because not all girls will share their nickname with you as it is something very personal.

#5 What’s the weirdest crush you’ve ever had?

Each one has at least got a weird crush during their teenage years, either with the school teacher, or the new neighbor or the gothic guy in the classroom. Sharing that with you shows your level of trust achievement. Or it can be a crush on your favorite singer Justin Bieber, whoever it is, this will help you score marks while you speak to the girl by diversifying the conversation.

#6 What’s the habit you hate most in a boyfriend?

Obviously, you are asking that question for yourself because if eventually you manage to cross the line of friendship, you will know what the things not to do based on her answers. Sometimes you just need to be a bit smart and work towards a good relationship.

#7 What’s the first thing you’d look at if you saw me naked?

Initially, this will make her roar in laughter, then she will look at you in a different angle as if she was picturing you naked. Try to shape out your body at the gym before you ask this question.

#8 If people could read your mind, what would they usually hear?

This will bring out the creativity side of her as she would try to mislead you in what she is currently thinking. In fact the purpose of this question is to find out what she is thinking about you.

#9 Would you rather be beautiful and dumb or ugly and clever?

This question will keep her thinking and it will also help you corner her true personality. This is very tricky question, and she might ask you with a smile, “Can I answer beautiful and clever?”. Since no girl wants to be ugly nor dumb.

#10 Do you think you’d know if I was feeling horny?

This is more of the far-fetch question, the one which you can ask when you have fully understood her personality, gained her trust. If she smiles naughtily, you know you are definitely pass the friend-zone.

#11 If you had to choose between me and your best friend, who would you choose?

This is one of the questions that you definitely need to ask as it will help you get out of the friend-zone very quickly. She will start to think seriously about what to answer as she will start contemplating you from another angle outside of the friend-zone.

#12 Are you ever jealous of me?

You are definitely getting there where you want with her with this kind of direct question. most probably she would hesitate to answer and at most giggle without answering. This reaction is a positive sign for you.

#13 Do you think my friends are hot?

This is where you want her compare you with other people. If she says no, you can then ask her, “Do you think I am hot?”. And if she says yes, you can ask her, “Don’t you think I am hot?”. In both situations, you will trigger the desired effect.

#14 Do you like experimenting with new things in life?

That is the question which will make her think a lot. Then you can suggest going out with you as an example, which will hopefully get a positive result.

#15 If the end of the world was near, and there was only you and me on Earth, what are the 3 things that you will do?

You are definitely getting out of the friend-zone with this kind of question. She will definitely no longer look at you as a friend and this question will bring a smile on her face.

#16 Would you like to change something about me?

Expect her to say, “Absolutely nothing. You are perfect!”. However, most probably you would want her to say the truth about what needs to be change about you. And if you try to change whatever she says is wrong, she will definitely appreciate you listening to her advice.

#17 With what phrases guys were trying to conquer you?

With this question, you will know what are the phrases that you should you avoid using with her yourself when trying to conquer her. You would not want to be like those previous guys who tried but were unsuccessful. You should always learn from past mistakes even if it’s from others.

#18 What does your name mean?

Most probably if she has an unusual name, she would obviously like to be asked what it means. If she does not know, and you already have done your piece of research work beforehand, she will be amazed if you tell her the meaning.

#19 What do you like doing the most over weekends?

This way, you will know about her timetable in the weekends so that you can try to fit in with something that she likes to do, that is coincide her likes with yours.

#20 Whom do you love the most?

She will answer most probably her mom or dad. Then you look at her and say with a sad expression, “I thought you were going to say me!”. That is the way to go to impress her with your talks.

#21 Can I call you when I feel like hearing your voice?

This question definitely demonstrates that you are flirting with he and that you want to be more than friends. She will most probably reply ‘yes’ with a big smile.

Final words

My final advice is by using some of these questions from the list of “21 questions to ask a girl so as not get friend-zoned”, you will definitely score some marks with your crush or girl you are interested in.

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